I’ve spent the last twenty-four hours with a woman that I love. She is in a very unique spot in her life, recently released from the psych ward and waiting to go into a rehab. There is a little window in between and I decided to spend that time with her, not knowing what to... Continue Reading →
Surfer Soul
Disclaimer: This isn't a personal ad. I am not dating or looking to date. . . but if I were? A surfer would be a really good choice. I'm not a surfer myself, but I can see the ocean from where I sit as I write this. It is a sight that comforts me,... Continue Reading →
10 Year Challenge
I didn't participate in the 10-year challenge where one compares two photos of themselves taken a decade apart. I had a moment of temptation where I felt an urge to find a flattering photo, (taken in the right light from the perfect angle, of course). A photo that would warrant many likes and "Oh, you... Continue Reading →
The Perfect Cup
I paid $ 20.00 for this cup - money well spent. Of course I already owned several coffee cups, but this one is special. I put the cash straight into the hands of the artist who created this, and supporting artists is something I never regret. It is a lovely cup. The curvature fits my... Continue Reading →
An Open Letter to Jeff Tweedy
Dear Jeff, I recently finished your book and felt compelled to write you a letter. This isn't my typical response to a book I enjoy. Usually I praise the book to someone I know will like appreciate it as I do, then I put it in their hands. I don't know anyone who would enjoy... Continue Reading →
The Nomenclature of Loneliness – Day 5
The loneliness of getting a divorce pales in comparison to the loneliness of being in a bad marriage, but today I will focus on the loneliness of divorce. Specifically, how it isolates you socially. Although I have not regretted my decision and have accepted the reality of my choice, I have to live with that... Continue Reading →
The Nomenclature of Loneliness – Day 4
I miss my mom. She's not dead, but she has Alzheimers. I saw her yesterday and it was a good day. She knew who I was and when I asked her about my son, she remembered him for the first time in a while. The last time I saw her, I thought she knew me,... Continue Reading →
The Nomenclature of Loneliness – Day 3
The loneliness of having a teenager. Of course this is not to be compared to anything more serious, such as losing a child. This is a specific type of loneliness that all parents will experience. It's like you had a puppy and then a great dog for the past twelve years, then one day it... Continue Reading →
The Nomenclature of Loneliness
Day 2: Feeling lonely in a crowd. This is not my idea, people talk to me about this all the time. It is is relatively common, yet some people find it confusing. I guess they wonder how you can feel alone when surrounded by people. It happens when you don't feel a connection. It can be... Continue Reading →