Reluctant Writing Tips


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I enjoy reading about the writing process in an effort to improve, but ultimately, what works for me, works for me. I worry about become too conscious of writing, something I think should be natural. Most of the tips I hear seem like common sense, so I hesitate to share my own practices. I believe we all need to find our own method, but I was asked to share, so here it goes.

  1. I’ve always been an effective communicator. I don’t think this can be taught, only improved upon. My personality type loves to talk and loves to tell a story. I don’t need a big audience, just one listener will suffice. So it is with writing. I’m telling a story and I try not to overthink it. For now, I just tell the story.
  2. I take two steps forward, one step back. Many writers advocate “The Big Dump”, where you go on complete “output mode”, put everything into the sandbox, then get in and move that sand around afterwards. This doesn’t work for me. I tried it (thanks NaNoWriMo) but it made me anxious. My style is much more like combing long hair. I take long strokes, experience some knots or tangles, which I gently work out, then I go back and make more long strokes. I rarely trim, but if I do take out the scissors if it is completely necessary. I think of editing as using the flat iron, making it pretty. I like long loose cures, so I section it and put a little gel in. I guess each curl is a chapter. I finesse the hair. Wah-la. That’s my style.
  3. If I’m really stuck, I might switch to a new POV. It may not stay that way, but sometimes it does. I stumped my writer’s group recently by introducing a new voice, but I assured them, “She’s just visiting. I need her to tell this part of the story. I’m going to switch it back.”
  4. Did I just mention writers groups? An absolute necessity for me. Actually, it can be counterproductive to be in the wrong group. Finding beta readers that understand my vision and will be hones
    t with me has been the smartest thing I have done.
  5. I read a lot. I don’t know why non-readers would want to write. I was an avid reader for years before I started writing. I read less, but it is still very important. I can’t imagine musicians not listening to other music. Chefs not trying other people’s food. Who the hell writes but doesn’t read? I don’t want to know them. Sorry.
  6. Write through the block. Boy do I have a collection of inspiring memes on this one, but the one I will quote is: “The water won’t flow, unless the faucet is turned on.” Sometimes I write garbage. Blogs. Poems. Lists about writing. Try to get something out everyday.
  7. Get outside, see something new, get inspired. I like to be around people. Even annoying people – sometimes it is the annoying people who inspire me.
    Be around people. Spend time alone. Not sure if that is my writing style, or my personality, but both are absolute necessities for this ambivert to write.
  8. Play and have fun. The best thing I have going for me is that I am no longer ruled by what people think of me. It allows me to be imperfect and enjoy myself. It allows me to break rules and have fun. That is the awesome thing about being an amateur verses a professional. No one can tell me what to do. Being a writer is the ultimate freedom.

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  1. I find that a lot of what works for you works for me. I’m far more private, but people watching is essential to me. While I do subscribe to the “get-it-all-down” method, I also think writing through the block is critical. When I’m stuck, I’ll outline a new book or edit an old one. That keeps the momentum going, and I think momentum is critical.

    This is a very informative article. I hope people see it, because there’s a lot of solid advice here.

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